TODAY'S LOVE PART 1

Part 1 - TEENAGER'S PROSPECTIVE

Part 2 - PARENTS IDEOLOGY

                        PART - 1

The age of puberty and the age of entangling in so called love life!!

Isn't it an amazing feeling to have your first crush and then trying an effort to have a chit-chat. Everything seems magical at that moment. And you boost yourself and the main motivator here become your friends , to outset a conversation!!  And after many rehersals and dilemmas in your mind , you finally approach the person with many punctuations in your speech!! And the story  commences here!! So basically the first way to start a conversation is something really official. So you start talking about lectures and books!! Then you become good friends. Then gossips begin. And then you finally give a name called special friends. And then out of two , one of them makes a proposal and here the story gives a new direction!!  

Chats get increased day by day...

Calls frequency boosts up...

Merrier the dreams come...

Even the silly thing starts appearing to be glad...

Possessiveness occurs...

Fights happen...

Butterflies in your stomach...

You start dreaming of FUTURE.!
And tragedy is here. After few months or an interval of 2-3 years, everything scatters off. I'm talking in majority of cases ,this happens.
And the phase of "Devdas" comes into play. The reason may be attention issues, doubt on partner, change in behaviour or habits etc. Then Crying ,hating yourself ,negative thoughts ,self confidence decreases ,you start questioning your own thoughts, ideologies and body too. 

Time and attention are different things. Time is meant to be given to your partner. And attention is somewhat that you crave for yourself from your partner. 

You feel like it's impossible to live without them. Here, friends play an important role to get you out of from this. This phase lasts upto some days and maximum upto a month. And everything appears to be normal then. Though you can't forget some memories. But life is always about moving on. 

CHOOSING A RIGHT PARTNER IS REQUISITE , WHO UNDERSTANDS YOUR ALL TYPES OF BEHAVIOUR. 

YOU CAN'T BE WITH THE PERSON THOSE WHO ARE ACTIVE WITH US FOR THEIR CHORES AND LEAVE US WHEN THEIR DEEDS ARE OVER. SUCH ONES SHOULD BE FORGOTTEN.

And if you are moving on and clicking to another relationship, people around you start judging which is somewhat unfair. We can't interrupt anyone in their own actions. Though if they are right or maybe wrong.

And at last but not the least, NO ONE IS INCOMPLETE WITHOUT ANYONE. 

NOTHING AND NO ONE CAN EVEN STOP OUR LIFE FROM GOING ON.!!!

SO, JUST BE YOURSELF AND DON'T RELY ON ANYONE SO BADLY THAT THE HAMMER HITS YOU BACK MORE DEEPLY..!!!

To be continued...