PROBLEM WITH SWEET HEARTED ONES!!

PROBLEM WITH SWEET HEARTED ONES..!

A world of 7.8 billion population, where all categories of people stay.  There are some that are fully compassionate and some are short tempered. Some are introvert , and some extrovert. Some are brave and at the same side there are cowards existing too.  

Here , there are people born who are kind and humble and at the same side there are ones who are the same but become master and criminal-minded later.  So in short there is a conclusion of this all , it all depends on your upbringing , your atmosphere where you lived in and also genes are obviously one of the reason behind your behaviour..

Social media is also one of the influencing platform for teenagers. Yes , it's the quotes which you all scroll it the whole day. It affects your mind, can make you psychologically negative. It Can make you think each thing in a emotional manner. Being senti is not a bad thing ,but in a toxic dose it's harmful. Not going deep about this , bcoz it will be a separate blog later.

Let's accentuate towards the sweet hearted ones. They are the ones who take care of all the relationships surrounding them. They make their atmosphere cheerful. They are the real angels who care more about the persons in comparison to the materialistic things. They can never deny you to any of your stuffs, be it your work or any other thing which is not possible for them at that particular moment. But they never make you disappoint and make your plan work somehow. They don't care about their own problems, unless they sort out first for other ones. They are the most amazing Convincers. They can convince you very easily and you may fall in their trap!!  They are the ones who always put themselves in your place and see things from your prospective.

Though people judge them stupid. Because they are easily available for you to stand. Some hard words hit them hard if its said by their closed ones. They try to get rid of that thoughts by engaging themselves in other activities but end up in overthinking.

SWEET HEARTED PEOPLE ARE A BLESSING TO OTHERS AND A CURSE TO THEMSELVES.

Ya it's curse sometimes. Because you just can't complete your all stuffs nicely. Something always interrupts them in between like some one seeking help , some thoughts etc. Though they are unknown or known or let it be an enemy , this soul doesn't have a NO in their dictionary. And like if any problem arose, your own emergency work no where matters for you at that moment. All you do is run for them.

And the biggest problem remains. They can't say anything bad or negative to others. They don't know what's being RUDE!!! And so they don't expect the same back. If a bad fight occurs between 2 girls , if one of them is badly throwing her speech , the other can't utter a word. Except getting panicked and feeling helpless later.

And CRYING is also one of the sign of being in this category. They cry oftenly with problems of no issues. Because a small thing also matters for them!! It's not a stupidity but somewhat trying to be secured..!!!

BLESSING : YOU REMAIN IN EVERYONE'S HEART.
CURSE : IT'S LIKE A CANDLE. YOU LIGHTEN UP ALL YOUR SURROUNDINGS, BUT THE SHADOW CREATED BY YOURSELF LEAVES YOU IN DARKNESS.

In numerous studies females score higher than males in standard tests of emotion recognition, social sensitivity and empathy.Women show relatively stronger emotional expressivity, whereas men have stronger emotional experiences with angry and positive stimuli.

But in today's mean world , only few people exists who has the same reactions to all the situation as you commit. And finding them is a tough job. And if you already have such ones , you must be thankful to God bcoz there are people existing who don't have anyone to listen. 

Value them. Bcoz someone is devoid of it. Appreciate them when you get a chance to. Because many of us value the person when it's too late. 

An advice to those sweet hearted ones , In this dreadful world , behave as they behave with you. Don't try to be so pleasing that you hurt yourself. Bcoz the ones who are gonna stay will be always there. No silly reasons can divide you from them.

And personally my favorite one : THE ONES WHO WANT TO STAY JUST NEEDS A REASON TO BE.. AND THE ONES WHO WANNA LEAVE ALWAYS SEARCH FOR AN EXCUSE.
Just find the difference between reason and excuse!!!